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12-28-2009, 08:43 PM
What a red letter day for me today. My son had surgery and did absolutely great. I had to spend the day with my ex which was not so great but what made it tolerable is that I made sure to dress my best to show off my 60 lbs lost the best I could. He was verbally abusive during our marriage and at one point today I got the "F - you" that I heard on a daily basis during our marriage. My reply today? A simple "you wish." He called me fat all the time while we were married.....

12-28-2009, 08:51 PM
What a great story. ha ha you wish. you go!

12-28-2009, 08:53 PM
Nice comeback!!! :-)
I bet his eyes were ready to pop you at the sight of sexy you.
Big congrats on your 60 lbs weight loss - awesome job!!

12-28-2009, 10:18 PM
Awesome experience, I'm sure :) I'd love that opportunity for an ex bofriend or 2...

12-28-2009, 11:11 PM
Good for you, honey. Congrats on the loss of the weight and how you handled things today.

12-29-2009, 12:19 AM
Congratulations on your loss! I bet you look amazing!!
And way to handle the *rudeness* that we will call your ex.. who even cares what he thought, you KNOW you look good!! ;)

12-29-2009, 12:27 AM
I'm glad your son's surgery went great :) Bonus for being able to showoff your weightloss to your ex. Sounds like it's a good thing you got rid of him, too :)

12-29-2009, 10:30 AM
Awesome comeback! I would not have thought about it...good job!

12-29-2009, 01:28 PM
I love that comeback. And good for you and your weight loss! Props for staying strong!!!

12-29-2009, 04:25 PM
Rotten nuts to him, and applause to you!!


12-29-2009, 04:28 PM
Good for you ! Get one bad thing out of your life and the other things go with it sometimes. Loved your comeback!

12-29-2009, 07:43 PM
As soon as it will let me post pics on here, I'll post a before where I'm at my heaviest and a pic now. I look like two different people.

12-30-2009, 12:02 AM
Congrats on your loss - both the weight and the ex - sounds like you're doing fabulously without both -how great is that!:woohoo:

So glad that your son came through the surgery and is doing well - what a blessing!

Keep up the good work - you're well on your way to achieving your goal and we'll all be here to cheer you on! :bravo:


12-30-2009, 12:13 AM
It sounds like you made the right decision when you made him your ex :cp:

Wonderful news about your son's surgery,:cool: it is such a worry while it's going on.

You go girl, 60 pounds down is amazing! :cheer2:

12-30-2009, 01:52 PM
So clever! What a great comeback! Way to hold your ground and not let him derail you at all!

12-30-2009, 02:15 PM
First off..congrats!! And way to put him in his place! He must have been stunned when he seen you!