100 lb. Club - Guess What!!!!!




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cfmama
10-08-2009, 10:34 AM
For the first time EVER in our marriage...

I weigh LESS THAN MY HUSBAND!

As of this morning: I weigh 223.2 and Jeff weighs... 224.

YES!

And yes I made him weigh the second he got up ;) Just to check ;)

:carrot: :carrot: :carrot: :carrot: :carrot:


Lyn2007
10-08-2009, 10:36 AM
LOL, that's awesome! What did he say?

cfmama
10-08-2009, 10:38 AM
lol! He got all pouty for a minute... ;) And then threw me on the couch and kissed me madly. And then contemplated skipping work today ;) And then went and had a shower. I think he's pleased ;)


Judy Lynn
10-08-2009, 10:38 AM
:woohoo: That's great!

findingfawn
10-08-2009, 10:39 AM
Oh how awesome!

I have a long long way to go to catch my hubby... but he said he only has 22 more pounds till he wants to stop.. (he wants to get to 175), but I'm sure he will want to go lower once he gets there... sigh. (he is I think 190 or so right now.. I have decided to stop focusing on his weight, it was dragging me down too much to see him dropping so fast).

ubergirl
10-08-2009, 10:49 AM
I Love It!!!

Onederchic
10-08-2009, 10:51 AM
:woohoo:

time2lose
10-08-2009, 10:51 AM
What an awesome NSV! Congratulations!

wendyland
10-08-2009, 10:53 AM
That's awesome. I can't wait to weigh less than my husband. He only weighs 175.

cfmama
10-08-2009, 10:56 AM
I started over 150 lbs heavier than him... so this is HUGE for me! He can pick me up, toss me around. It's freakin heaven I tell ya :)

bargoo
10-08-2009, 11:01 AM
Congratulations ! You are doing great !

Thighs Be Gone
10-08-2009, 11:08 AM
AWESOME! Way to do it!

I also weighed about 50 pounds more than hubby before I began. NOT a fun place to be. :)

Thighs Be Gone
10-08-2009, 11:09 AM
I started over 150 lbs heavier than him... so this is HUGE for me! He can pick me up, toss me around. It's freakin heaven I tell ya :)

Don't you love it?

The other day my hubby piggy backed me home from the park. My kids were screaming laughing and so was I!!!

p.s. I REALLY DON'T LIKE this ad thing below me!!!

rockinrobin
10-08-2009, 11:19 AM
I am SO happy for you. I know just how delighted you are. Because when it happened to me, I was over the top ecstatic.

ladyrider72472
10-08-2009, 11:24 AM
congrats Tammy!

I know how you feel... a few weeks ago for the first time EVER, I weighted less than my older son. Woo Hoo!

nelie
10-08-2009, 11:37 AM
Congrats! My husband weighs 140 so I don't plan to ever weigh less than him.

kaybelle9
10-08-2009, 11:48 AM
That is just awesome! I hope to get there too! Thanks for the encouragement! :D

Charbar
10-08-2009, 11:50 AM
What an awesome accomplishment! :)

salsa chip
10-08-2009, 11:52 AM
Oh WOW, that's awesome!! I can't wait for something like that to happen to me too :)

SnowboundChick
10-08-2009, 12:19 PM
That made me smile!! I'm so happy for you!

JulieJ08
10-08-2009, 12:25 PM
Geez Louise, you're almost out of the 220's to boot :D

lottie63
10-08-2009, 12:29 PM
Congrats! I can't wait to be there too! :D

princess jen
10-08-2009, 12:49 PM
congrats!!@!@

DCHound
10-08-2009, 12:51 PM
Woot!

shasha17a
10-08-2009, 12:54 PM
Yay! I can't wait until I weigh less than my boyfriend. Hes around 195 and my ultimate goal is to be 175.

FitGirlyGirl
10-08-2009, 01:02 PM
That is way awesome! :bravo:

yoyoma
10-08-2009, 01:28 PM
Terrific milestone! Congratulations!!!

CLCSC145
10-08-2009, 01:36 PM
So very cool! Congrats! :D

momof5k
10-08-2009, 01:47 PM
Ooooo! What I fantastic victory! I think I am on the edge of that as well. Can't wait!!

JasonsLea
10-08-2009, 01:54 PM
:lol: Fabulous! :carrot:

Sylvied
10-08-2009, 01:58 PM
Congratulations! That's fantastic. I've got about 9 lbs to go for that one.

Yayy!

CanadianCutie
10-08-2009, 02:00 PM
Woot! That is awesome. So encouraging and motivating for the rest of us, not there yet

Loving Me
10-08-2009, 02:30 PM
That's amazing, well done, I'm not surprised you are so happy and proud. I have about 30lbs to go to weigh less than DH but when I started I had over 40lbs to go, so I know I'll get there in the end. At the moment DH doesn't know how much I weigh, although he can probably guess, but when I weigh less than him he'll definitely knoe know about it! lol

meliann
10-08-2009, 02:48 PM
Congrats! My husband is about 130 (he's short!), so I have a lonnng way to go :)

Alana in Canada
10-08-2009, 05:06 PM
Hooray!! :carrot:

I'll be ecstatic the day I weight the same as hubby--if that ever comes! He's 138.

SunshineCA
10-08-2009, 05:07 PM
:lol: Awesome! ;)

EveLHaelf
10-08-2009, 05:10 PM
That is so great! Congrats on all your hard work. It will be a while until I can say that (my goal weight is only 20 lbs less than my hubby's weight.) But I will certainly be shouting it from the rooftops when it happens! lol!

Keep up the good work! :hug:

BarbPA
10-08-2009, 08:13 PM
Girly....You ROCK! :D That is just freakin' awesome! Not only the weighing less part...but the kissing and obviously madly in love part! :love:

sidhe
10-08-2009, 08:22 PM
I can totally picture this, and it gives me the biggest smile! Congratulations!!

midwife
10-08-2009, 11:30 PM
Fantastic!!! :carrot:

harrismm
10-08-2009, 11:50 PM
Lol

Rosinante
10-09-2009, 03:32 AM
Wonderful! Well done!

TraceyElaine
10-09-2009, 07:02 AM
I know how big of a deal that is. I still outweigh my hubby by 40lbs. Congrats to you.

2behealthy
10-09-2009, 07:14 AM
You enjoy that happy dance! What a great victory!!

cfmama
10-09-2009, 05:03 PM
Thank you so much everyone! This morning? 222.8... must have been all of the victory sex ;) lol!!!!!

Idealmuse
10-09-2009, 10:53 PM
I am SO happy for you. I know just how delighted you are. Because when it happened to me, I was over the top ecstatic.

Same here I just passed up mine too he was 210 or so... Although he's recently in the last month gotten on the lose weight bandwagon and down to 204. (He's even counting calories - so Cute!)

He's chasing me down, but I'm still lower.

I know it shouldn't matter but, eh... It still felt nice. Makes one feel more feminine or something.

cfmama
10-10-2009, 12:46 PM
It DOES make you feel more feminine. I love it :)

rockinrobin
10-10-2009, 01:29 PM
Same here I just passed up mine too he was 210 or so... Although he's recently in the last month gotten on the lose weight bandwagon and down to 204. (He's even counting calories - so Cute!)

He's chasing me down, but I'm still lower.

I know it shouldn't matter but, eh... It still felt nice. Makes one feel more feminine or something.

It DOES make you feel more feminine. I love it :)

Yes, yes, it MATTERS - a lot. I'm sorry, but it just does. Men are supposed to weigh more then woman, NOT the other way around. Unless of course the woman is waaay taller then the man.

I was always very uncomfortable with it. It just felt out of sync and I don't know - wrong.

cfmama
10-10-2009, 01:38 PM
YES! RR... yes.

And I feel free to leap on him now, he picks me up, I don't feel like I will crush him.

I might add that he's 6 feet and SOLID muscle. Like HUGE chest, arms and legs. Knowing how big he IS always made me feel sooooo huge :( Because he's a "BIG GUY" so what did that make me?

THIS is the way it's supposed to me. I will NEVER weigh more than him again. Ever ever ever.

rockinrobin
10-10-2009, 02:00 PM
And I feel free to leap on him now, he picks me up, I don't feel like I will crush him.

And there's been times when DH wants me to sit on his lap. I would tell him, no I'll crush you. And he'd be all like, "what are you kidding, you're a toothpick" "I'm a toothpick?" Me? Took me a long time to realize that I wouldn't cause him bodily harm. It's just wonderful. All these things bring me so much joy. I get the biggest kick out of it.


THIS is the way it's supposed to me. I will NEVER weigh more than him again. Ever ever ever.

Yes!!! Times a million.

It's these type things that prove the point when I frequently say that passing up on "those foods" is no deprivation. But that EATING it "those foods" is the real deprivation. I deprived myself of sooooo much joy for so long. Not any more. Never. Ever. Again. I know you feel the same way.

S.A.S.H
10-10-2009, 03:01 PM
:cheer: Congratulations! :woohoo: Keep up the awesome work! I bet it's a great feeling. :)

TempleBody
10-10-2009, 03:11 PM
w00 cfmama!! that sounded like a good way to start the day. ;)

JustBeckyV
10-10-2009, 03:18 PM
Congrats!! I am sure you are feeling on top of the world!

VickieLou
10-10-2009, 06:38 PM
:congrat: CFMAMA!

Idealmuse
10-10-2009, 06:41 PM
YES! RR... yes.

And I feel free to leap on him now, he picks me up, I don't feel like I will crush him.


Did you get a piggyback ride yet? That's a moment for the books. :)

cfmama
10-10-2009, 06:55 PM
Did you get a piggyback ride yet? That's a moment for the books. :)

He did! Last night. LOVED IT.

rockinrobin
10-10-2009, 07:51 PM
He did! Last night. LOVED IT.

Boy you waste no time. Impressive. I finally let my DH pick me up just a few months ago. Like I said, I still have this fear that I may break him.

srr728
10-10-2009, 08:06 PM
thats Fab! i cant wait until i can say the same, way to go

time2lose
10-12-2009, 09:55 AM
CFMomma,

I am late in congratulating you but want to add my congratulations. The truth is I am jealous but you are really inspiring me and I look forward to weighting less than DH. It will be a long time because he is 5'6" and only carries a few extra pounds. Isn't 20 extra pounds a few? I think the folks in this club understand. :)

Keep going and keep inspiring!

nelie
10-12-2009, 10:03 AM
Yes, yes, it MATTERS - a lot. I'm sorry, but it just does. Men are supposed to weigh more then woman, NOT the other way around. Unless of course the woman is waaay taller then the man.

I was always very uncomfortable with it. It just felt out of sync and I don't know - wrong.

I'm sorry but this is offensive. My husband weighs 140 and I have to say I maybe weighed 140 when I was 8 years old but even imagining getting there is really mind blowing. And every woman is feminine in her own way, no matter if they weigh 120 or 300 and I couldn't imagine telling a woman she is wrong to weigh more than a man.

I am proud of every woman who makes such an achievement but honestly, it isn't in my plan.

rockinrobin
10-12-2009, 10:55 AM
I'm sorry but this is offensive. My husband weighs 140 and I have to say I maybe weighed 140 when I was 8 years old but even imagining getting there is really mind blowing. And every woman is feminine in her own way, no matter if they weigh 120 or 300 and I couldn't imagine telling a woman she is wrong to weigh more than a man.

I am proud of every woman who makes such an achievement but honestly, it isn't in my plan.

Nelie, I deeply apologize for offending you. I did mention that I think this holds true for the most part, unless the woman is taller then the husband. I also didn't mention a thing about a woman not being feminine due to her size, so I'm not sure where you got that from my post. Although I didn't mention it, I will say that I personally didn't feel very feminine at my large size, but that's neither here nor there. I should have also written that this is my opinion. Because well it is my opinion that it was wrong for ME to weigh more then my husband. I'm 5 foot nothing and well it would be *wrong*, probably wasn't the right term to use, it would be unhealthy and unwise of me to weigh more then my husband. Truth is, at my height, it would be unhealthy of me to weigh more then most women.

And you're being 5' 6" and your DH being 140 lbs, I could see where this wouldn't be necessarily part of your plan! But that is something we all have to decide for ourselves. It doesn't matter what anyone else "sees" or doesn't see. It's all up to us. Again, I apologize for offending you.

DCHound
10-12-2009, 11:27 AM
Back when I was married, I never weighed less than my husband but 1987-1990 then again in 2003 right before the divorce I was smaller than him, at least. He was tall and scrawny and I remember what a good feeling it was to throw on one of his shirts and have it hang on me. (And with these boobs, and him wearing a men's medium, that was quite an accomplishment!)

Now, I could never wear his pants, even during the one interval he "got fat" all of a sudden, went up to a 35 waist, then lost it all again quite quickly. Even at my smallest, and his largest, there's no way these hips would have fit into any pants of his.

But I do remember what a great feeling it was to be SMALLER than him. I no longer felt like Mrs. Jack Spratt. Congrats CF Mama!

nelie
10-12-2009, 11:45 AM
I don't equate weight with health but I can say I understand how one can feel better weighing than their husband. I can say I felt good when I was able to wear some of the same clothes as my husband (tops, coats, etc). Also he can lift me which is a bit scary because I still see myself as someone who is over 300 lbs.

rockinrobin
10-12-2009, 11:55 AM
I don't equate weight with health..

I do. I really, really do. Now mind you, I don't think it's the ONLY thing that determines health, but I do think being a so called normal weight is a major factor.

I understand how one can feel better weighing than their husband

And I'm real glad that you can understand this, even though it may not necessarily be the case for you. Just as I clearly see you not having to get down to your DH's weight. I was *lucky* with that. I did not/do not have one of those skinny minnie husbands. And yes, that was a sarcastic lucky. How I wish he were slimmer. :(

ubergirl
10-12-2009, 12:05 PM
Nelie,

I'm right here with you on this one. I'm 5'8" and my husband is only 5'6" if you're generous. I think he weighs just over 150...he's slim and very athletic and runs all the time. Honestly, he would have no trouble lifting me right now.

When we first met, we were about the same weight and could even share clothes sometimes, but honestly, I don't think I'll ever weigh less than him now.

I see NO correlation between weight and femininity-- some very thin women aren't feminine at all, some morbidly obese women are very feminine.