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ohiofreespirit
08-16-2009, 10:39 PM
Do you stare? Do you still stare even if they are married?


There is a married man at my gym and he's so handsome imo. i stare at him, not to hit on him but just for my own perviness. i feel bad tho. i know i shouldn't stare, i would never start anything with him even if he approached me but man, he's handsome.


SunshineCA
08-16-2009, 11:53 PM
It doesn't hurt to look. ;)

Operator265
08-17-2009, 12:06 AM
**** Ya!!!!


lizziep
08-17-2009, 01:04 AM
well what do you think he's there for?? ogling the women of course! why can't we ogle back?! it's only fair if you ask me....

Nikeolie
08-17-2009, 01:11 AM
lol of course! Yummy eye candy! :)

weightlosswanted
08-17-2009, 01:17 AM
what better way to pass the time and make a work-out more bearable?

Pita09
08-17-2009, 07:37 AM
I work out at a wellness center and most of the guys are like 80. :D However, there are some really cute trainers and every once in a while we get a hot college guy in there. I love to watch them run. I mostly just watch the TV in front of me and try to sweat as much as possible.

FrouFrou
08-17-2009, 08:21 AM
Just because one is married doesn't mean one is dead, lol! I ALWAYS look and the hubby knows it...I do it in front of him though, just rude but I am definitely a looker.

dragonwoman64
08-17-2009, 09:11 AM
I work out at a wellness center and most of the guys are like 80. :D However, there are some really cute trainers and every once in a while we get a hot college guy in there. I love to watch them run. I mostly just watch the TV in front of me and try to sweat as much as possible.

yeah, at the Y there's plenty of elderly and family guys. some of the trainers are kinda hot. young, sigh, but hot.

I'm not sure what they're called, but in there resistance room there are bars with handles, about 8 feet off the ground, that you grasp and pull yourself up. takes a lot of upper body and arm strength, so mostly guys do it, and they're usually built guys. I can't help being impressed and staring at that.

Slashnl
08-17-2009, 02:27 PM
I look too. Even at the young ones. :D There is no ulterior motive, just admiring the scenery!

belezura
08-17-2009, 02:43 PM
Wow... I guess I am too conservative.
I like to look guys, don’t take me wrong. But if I notice he is married, I automatically lose interesting, even if it is only to look at.
I guess I just don’t do what I don’t want others do to me. What I mean is: I don’t think I would appreciate if a women would keep looking at “my man” after she is aware he is in a relationship (with me).
Also, when I am in a relationship I can look at single guys, but I do not flirt with them. I look at them and if I realize they look back I quit looking to avoid any misunderstanding or even future issues...

NightengaleShane
08-17-2009, 03:46 PM
I stare. I don't care if they are married; all I'm doing is looking! :D

However, I will not flirt with or hit on a married man, even if he is giving me all types of attention. It is sad to report how many married and/or taken men have tried to hit on me. When I was younger and more naive, I automatically assumed a married (or even taken!) guy automatically had no interest in other women. Of course, I was quite wrong.

I go to the bodybuilder gym, so there are plenty of VERY HOT, very built guys. I will pretend to watch my form in the mirrors while I am really eyeing the gym the entire time.

I have also found that losing weight has made me twice the perv. :lol:

ohiofreespirit
08-17-2009, 08:53 PM
I work out at a wellness center and most of the guys are like 80. :D However, there are some really cute trainers and every once in a while we get a hot college guy in there. I love to watch them run. I mostly just watch the TV in front of me and try to sweat as much as possible.



This guy is a trainer. *chuckle* i'm sooooooooooo bad.

ohiofreespirit
08-17-2009, 08:55 PM
Wow... I guess I am too conservative.
I like to look guys, donít take me wrong. But if I notice he is married, I automatically lose interesting, even if it is only to look at.
I guess I just donít do what I donít want others do to me. What I mean is: I donít think I would appreciate if a women would keep looking at ďmy manĒ after she is aware he is in a relationship (with me).
Also, when I am in a relationship I can look at single guys, but I do not flirt with them. I look at them and if I realize they look back I quit looking to avoid any misunderstanding or even future issues...


i don't lose interest if they are married, i just feel rather guilty for perving. *sigh*

EZMONEY
08-17-2009, 08:55 PM
I used to go to the gym...

Women were always checking me out...

no...wait...

I was always checking them out!

tikanique
08-18-2009, 12:15 AM
when I go to the gym, I usually notice all the guys that are my height and shorter. I mentally size them up and say to myself "I can kick your a**!" Of course I'd never try it, but that's the silly thing I do at the gym where men are concerned.

Smiling_Sara
08-18-2009, 11:06 AM
Do you stare? Do you still stare even if they are married?


There is a married man at my gym and he's so handsome imo. i stare at him, not to hit on him but just for my own perviness. i feel bad tho. i know i shouldn't stare, i would never start anything with him even if he approached me but man, he's handsome.

you can't help but stare sometimes, IMO. When there is some good eye candy around, no harm in a longer than usual gaze.

There are these two younger guys at the gym I go to. Soooo HOT. They are prob in their mid 20's ( I'm 30 ) but I get a little excited when I see there car is still there when I get to the gym. I'll prob never get up enough nerve to talk to them, but yeah, they are so good looking.

Aclai4067
08-18-2009, 11:36 AM
I don't often find guys to stare at too much. But just after reading this thread yesterday I went to the gym and found myself checking a guy out. Ha. He was too old for my taste but from the neck down you couldn't tell. He had a nice butt

ohiofreespirit
08-19-2009, 05:23 AM
LOL It's so nice to see i'm not alone. *phew* :carrot: