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07-01-2009, 03:55 PM
I just found out that hubby's ex is purposly going to be in Vegas the exact weekend that hubby and I are going to be there and wants to meet up...here's the kicker: the ex is a regular contestant in miss fitness pagents and wins. Boy do I feel great about myself right now!!!

07-01-2009, 04:00 PM
:hug:Hey now! Don't go getting upset or discouraged. That's going to be a tough thing for you, but I think that anyone who's managed to lose 30 pounds, going towards the FANTASTIC FIFTY mark should feel very, very proud of the work you've put in. She may be a regular "Miss Fitness" pageant winner, but in my books, so are you for coming this far in your weight loss. Stay strong!:hug:

07-01-2009, 04:04 PM
Thanx ninepaw - I needed that!

07-01-2009, 04:10 PM
Heck...if you run into "Miss Fitness" just remember that YOU are the one who gets to go back to the room with him, and not her!!!

07-01-2009, 04:18 PM
I'd say if you don't want to meet her than you guys shouldn't- I wouldn't want an ex's of my husband's around on my vacation!

Oh wait or EVER for that matter.... Hubby should say to her "sorry we are spending the vacation just the two of us (or just the family)."

07-01-2009, 06:09 PM
If all your DH wanted was a fitness model, he'd be with her.
You GOTTA have something special -- your DH loves YOU and not HER!!!
Who CARES what she looks like??? YOU are the special ONE that he's with.

Hang in there...


07-01-2009, 06:20 PM
You've done a fantastic job and he is with you and not her so don't let her worry you at all. You just have a great time with your hubby. I will admit though that if it were me, I would not have her at my vacation at all. I wish you luck with it all *HUGS*

07-02-2009, 04:01 AM
She has her fitness pageants. You have a life... with the man that loves you.
You might want to put you foot down on this one though and make it clear to hubby that you have no intention of spending any time with her, this is your vacation!

07-02-2009, 11:11 AM
The worst thing you can do is be worried and jealous. Just remember you are a beautiful woman, he chose you, and you have nothing to be concerned about. That's the air you want to project.

Thighs Be Gone
07-02-2009, 11:14 AM
Why does hubby want to meet up with ex?

There is no reason you shouldn't show up feeling proud and rockin' the best YOU! After all, that's who you hubby chose!