Hi Cassandra and
Sorry to hear about your father. I lost my father to heart disease in February 2006 and, since I tend to be an emotional eater, focusing on weight loss during that time was out of the question. Just wasn't going to happen. I've done Atkins successfully in the past, but gained the weight back when I went back to my "normal" way of eating. It's a good plan, but it truly does need to be a lifestyle change to be effective over the long haul. Whatever plan you use, I wish you great success!