100 lb. Club - Controlled the urge to angereat




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Rosinante
03-28-2009, 10:46 AM
I'm hoping I'm not the only one who is sometimes so angry they eat.....

Today I had to ring VirginMedia, after I'd written a long letter of complaint to the CEO (botched installation, promised a loyalty package that no longer exists, landline cut without warning, lies given to me when I rang to enquire, had to sacrifice my private mobile number when the landline gave up cos I'm on 24/7 call and they said I couldn't have my number back, although that turned out not to be true...). They asked me to ring today. So I did but I knew it was likely to be a bumpy conversation, and I know too my temptation to punish other people by me eating. Yes, I know that makes no sense.

So instead of phoning after lunch, I decided to phone before. The conversation was very annoying. They accept no responsibility, they will not offer compensation. I am contemplating my next move
but but but but but
I then gave myself permission to dive headfirst into my lunch (and only my lunch, no extras) and eat it angrily and guess what? I ate it tastingly instead, all I could think was, You eat because someone annoys you? That's weird.

So today I'm cured of one thing.

(shhh even though the scale has gone up a pound again. shhhhhh)


futuresurferchick
03-28-2009, 11:22 AM
Ailidh... Good for you for using a strategy to avoid anger eating. You recognized your trigger and made a plan in advance. That is AWESOME.

And I hope you sue find some way to make them compensate you... stories like this make ME so mad to hear about!!

fiberlover
03-28-2009, 11:48 AM
Great job on not letting someone else control how you ate!
:bravo:


cfmama
03-28-2009, 12:58 PM
That was a great NSV for you! I too had a tendency to anger eat and it's a very good one to get rid of ;)

MandiK
03-29-2009, 02:08 PM
I know the feeling. It's like "I'll show them, I'm going to eat" but if you really think about it, it's funny because they don't even know you're eating and why would they care if they did know you were anger eating... you'd just be hurting yourself by gaining weight! LOL!!!

MrsWolf
03-29-2009, 07:16 PM
Ah, my favourite game... "I'll show you; I'll hurt me!" Not effective, but I do it all the time.

Glad your strategy worked! It's awesome when we can recognize patterns and take action to "outsmart" them.

:bravo:

Jennelle
03-29-2009, 08:54 PM
Great job! I also am an emotional eater, so I know just how hard that was to do!

Naughtymonkey01
03-29-2009, 10:22 PM
me too. i fight with someone, i get annoyed, im looking for something to eat. lol good for you!

thinpossible
03-30-2009, 11:30 AM
Seriously, that is great, just a huge NSV. You should be so proud.

Rosinante
03-30-2009, 01:03 PM
Thankyou for all the replies!