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EZMONEY
02-12-2009, 10:35 PM
SHE left me :(

I can't for sure say when. I have a good idea when it happened :yes:

As in most :love: relationships :love: it doesn't happen overnight :no:

I thought we were tight! Together :love: forever :love:

After all SHE was with me when I could have hugged that little long red haired girl Brandy when I was 6 years old....but instead I pulled that long red hair. What can I say :shrug: I was in :love: love :love:

SHE was with me at 8 yrs. old when I should have shot the plastic toy army men with my BB gun but instead shot my brother in the butt :o

I realize I embarrassed her to no end when I gave the umpire the bird while standing on the pitcher's mound when I was 12....it was a strike! She cringed....but she was there, I could have accepted the call.

SHE warned :nono: me about :smoking: when I was 16...SHE was there when I quit :smoking: for good in '97.

SHE has always been there for me.

SHE was there 19 months ago when I hit 201 on the ricter :goodscale

SHE stayed with me through the year, and then some, as I learned what it took to become :) proud of myself. SHE was there and :hat: celebrated with me when I hit 170 pounds. SHE was so proud I had lost my "little buddy" ;)

I'll admit I wasn't perfect :no:

I'll admit I got lazy and complacent :yes:

I wasn't :dracula: evil

I did continue to walk ~ So what if I "cheated" too many times with chips and :cheese: SHE was there....SHE saw me....I didn't do it behind her back...I didn't.

It's almost my birthday :woo: I am up almost 6 pounds over last year's 172...SHE is disappointed :(

:( SAD :( isn't it? :love: VALENTINES DAY :love: is just around the corner....my :celebrate: birthday is a bit over 2 weeks away and SHE has left me....

SHE has...yes :yes: SHE has....my :judge: judgement :judge: on my "journey of better choices" has left me...

HOW COULD SHE!?


Beautiful Ace
02-12-2009, 10:41 PM
Holy moly I thought you were talking about your wife or something I was like, OMGGGGG .... but yeh... Sorry to hear she left ya and I hope you get her back soon!

Lori259
02-12-2009, 10:45 PM
Holy moly I thought you were talking about your wife or something I was like, OMGGGGG .... but yeh... Sorry to hear she left ya and I hope you get her back soon!

I agree with ace~i hope you get her back soon too!:hug:


Jeannette311
02-12-2009, 10:46 PM
*heartattack!

Oh Gary, I am speechless!!!

*giggles nervously*

rockinrobin
02-12-2009, 10:53 PM
She'll come back Gary. They always do. They leave from time to time, but thankfully they come back. Oh and it's SUCH a relief when they do. It's just the way things are with these kind of relationships. But the thing is - you must go and GET HER. Don't wait for her to find her way back to you. YOU'VE got to seek her out. She's there. She WANTS to come back. Think how it was in the beginning. Go back to the beginning. Try to recapture that feeling. Remember why you found her in the first place. Now go. Get her. TAKE HER! NOW!!! Ya hear? :hug:

midwife
02-12-2009, 11:13 PM
I found her Gary.

She is outside my house throwing pebbles at my window. Tap. Tap. Tap. She has lured my judgement out of the house for wild partying and carousing. I am having a hard time keeping tabs on my judgement. He is missing curfew and bringing home pizza and sweets and smelling of illicit binges.

Come get your judgement, please. She is corrupting mine!!!

EZMONEY
02-12-2009, 11:24 PM
Holy moly I thought you were talking about your wife or something I was like, OMGGGGG .... but yeh... Sorry to hear she left ya and I hope you get her back soon!

HA! That's 'cause you are fairly new here kiddo....once you have been around long enoguh you will know ANGIE "owns" me...and she does not give up things she owns easily ;)

I agree with ace~i hope you get her back soon too!:hug:

Thanks LORI :)

*heartattack!

Oh Gary, I am speechless!!!

*giggles nervously*

As long as it doesn't weaken your knees for the 5K I will consider my post a success ;)

She'll come back Gary. They always do. They leave from time to time, but thankfully they come back. Oh and it's SUCH a relief when they do. It's just the way things are with these kind of relationships. But the thing is - you must go and GET HER. Don't wait for her to find her way back to you. YOU'VE got to seek her out. She's there. She WANTS to come back. Think how it was in the beginning. Go back to the beginning. Try to recapture that feeling. Remember why you found her in the first place. Now go. Get her. TAKE HER! NOW!!! Ya hear? :hug:

Yep ROBIN I remember where I found her...in that carnival mirror Angie keeps on the bathroom wall...you know...the one that makes us look fat and skinny....problem is the skinny part of it is broke :( I shall seek and hope to find ;)

I found her Gary.

She is outside my house throwing pebbles at my window. Tap. Tap. Tap. She has lured my judgement out of the house for wild partying and carousing. I am having a hard time keeping tabs on my judgement. He is missing curfew and bringing home pizza and sweets and smelling of illicit binges.

Come get your judgement, please. She is corrupting mine!!!

BABY CATCHER I think "he" is going to get pizza with "her" and bring it to my house tomorrow while Angie is out with my daughter, ex-wife, sister, sil and nieces to see "He Just Isn't That Into You"...so easy to hide it when Angie is gone....after all it will be Friday..."judgement" dang....where did she go?

gymlee
02-12-2009, 11:40 PM
*Scratches head* I still don't get it? Are you talking about losing your better judgment since I see you and everyone else using the word judgement? I just want to make sure I understand because if that's what you're talking about I understand where you're coming from Gar. It seems I've lost my better judgement too :(

bargoo
02-13-2009, 12:33 AM
It must be an epidemic. My judgement leaves from time to time but usually comes back when I get sick and tired of being sick and tired.

Operator265
02-13-2009, 12:37 AM
*Warning* All 3FC Posters *Warning*

Never, ever, ever trust Gary to put up a straight forward post!!!:nono: He's not capable of it. That's why we love him.:hug:

Don't worry Gary, she'll come back to ya'. If not, just keep checking in here. We'll help you find her.:kickbutt:

Slashnl
02-13-2009, 08:51 AM
Yep, Operator, you're advice is good. When I read it, I knew there was a catch! Just wait for it... wait for it... wait for it... THERE IT IS!!! ha!

ronni62
02-13-2009, 09:00 AM
:lol:Yep, Gary, she'll come back, all right! And, then she'll be like Judge Judy and:kickbutt: right back into shape!

Jen415
02-13-2009, 09:17 AM
Gary, I want to hurt you! (j/k)

Funny how your called your judgement a "SHE"....;)

flatiron
02-13-2009, 09:34 AM
*Scratches head* I still don't get it? Are you talking about losing your better judgment since I see you and everyone else using the word judgement? (


I'm glad I wasn't the only one that didn't get it! LOL! I had to read other posts below it to sorta understand it!

So your judgment left you? :D

EZMONEY
02-13-2009, 10:47 PM
*Scratches head* I still don't get it? Are you talking about losing your better judgment since I see you and everyone else using the word judgement? I just want to make sure I understand because if that's what you're talking about I understand where you're coming from Gar. It seems I've lost my better judgement too :(

Yep...I seem to have lost my better judgement :)

It must be an epidemic. My judgement leaves from time to time but usually comes back when I get sick and tired of being sick and tired.

Think I am getting close to being "angry" with myself for all the little cheats!

*Warning* All 3FC Posters *Warning*

Never, ever, ever trust Gary to put up a straight forward post!!!:nono: He's not capable of it. That's why we love him.:hug:

Don't worry Gary, she'll come back to ya'. If not, just keep checking in here. We'll help you find her.:kickbutt:

Thanks for letting out ALL the secrets Miss TNT! :mad: :hug:

Yep, Operator, you're advice is good. When I read it, I knew there was a catch! Just wait for it... wait for it... wait for it... THERE IT IS!!! ha!

You know me all too well Colorado D! :)

:lol:Yep, Gary, she'll come back, all right! And, then she'll be like Judge Judy and:kickbutt: right back into shape!

Bring her on!...not wait!!! she's too mean :devil: ;)

Gary, I want to hurt you! (j/k)

Funny how your called your judgement a "SHE"....;)

Beat me up all the way thru that 5K! Go girl-GO!

I'm glad I wasn't the only one that didn't get it! LOL! I had to read other posts below it to sorta understand it!

So your judgment left you? :D

You got it dude! :)

EZMONEY
02-13-2009, 10:50 PM
OK ~

I know you can have a split personality

Can you have a split judgementality?

Example today of good judgement ~Lunch... Turkey on whole wheat, lettuce and tomato with a can of healthy request chicken noodle soup

Poor judgement? Dinner....Burritos with hamburger, cheese and onion and refried beans....AND a lot of tortilla chips

Beer....I heard on another thread that 2 are healthy for you...

Looks like I will be extra healthy tonight ;)

CountingDown
02-13-2009, 10:56 PM
:kickbutt: Gary, your judgment hasn't left, or even taken a vacation. YOU banished her from your life. She needs to be treated with respect. She needs to be courted. She needs an apology. Well, tomorrow is Valentine's Day - maybe flowers will bring her back. And Don't even THINK about chocolate - alright - STEP AWAY FROM THE BEER! She really doesn't want it!! Trust me on this.

Sorry, some tough love here - YOU know what to do to bring her back - now DO IT!!!
:hug: (loved your post)

EZMONEY
02-13-2009, 11:07 PM
Yea but SCOOTER....I still have a 30 pack in the garage fridge AND it is the week-end!

Oh...the confusion....the pain

rockinrobin
02-14-2009, 06:18 AM
WARNING: MORE TOUGH LOVE AHEAD


I still have a 30 pack in the garage fridge AND it is the week-end!

Yeah, so you've got stash, AND it's the weekend. What of it? Just because it's there, doesn't mean you HAVE to have it. Come Monday morning, how will you feel if you indulge? How will you feel if you stay away from it?

I could be wrong, (wouldn't be the first or the 100th time) but I think you'd be feeling much better with yourself if you do without it. And you'd be well on your way to getting her back. :smug:

JayEll
02-14-2009, 06:28 AM
You know what it is, Gary... :yes:

Jay

EZMONEY
02-14-2009, 08:56 AM
WARNING: MORE TOUGH LOVE AHEAD

It's VALENTINES DAY ROBIN....we take LOVE any way we can get it on this day...tough or not :)




Yeah, so you've got stash, AND it's the weekend. What of it? Just because it's there, doesn't mean you HAVE to have it. Come Monday morning, how will you feel if you indulge? How will you feel if you stay away from it?

I could be wrong, (wouldn't be the first or the 100th time) but I think you'd be feeling much better with yourself if you do without it. And you'd be well on your way to getting her back. :smug:

Is EVERY woman here smart or what? :hug:

You know what it is, Gary... :yes:

Jay

Could be time to get that BEER FOR MY HORSES back up and runnin' JAY :hug:

CountingDown
02-14-2009, 09:01 AM
Is EVERY woman here smart or what?


:D

Could be time to get that BEER FOR MY HORSES back up and runnin' JAY :hug:

:yes:

rockinrobin
02-14-2009, 09:28 AM
Is EVERY woman here smart or what? :hug:

Well - ummm - YEAH!!!!

But you know what, I think you've been hanging around us for a long enough time and some of that smart has rubbed off. It was bound to ;). But who are we kidding here? You KNOW what needs to be done - now go and DO IT!!!! Ya hear?

It's not nice to keep a woman waiting.

Tomato
02-14-2009, 09:42 AM
Gary, fortunately I have known you long enough to never suspect, even for a split second, that you were talking about Angie. I knew this was one of your trick posts. :D
Happy Valentine's to you and your lovely wife.

Operator265
02-14-2009, 01:54 PM
You know, it's pretty easy to understand the confusion, if you think about it. Typically, Angie IS Gary's "Better Judgement".

EZMONEY
02-14-2009, 05:08 PM
HOW can you say that MISS TNT?

Angie thinks lite beer is tasty!

Operator265
02-14-2009, 05:14 PM
You should listen to your "Better Judgment" then. She's right.:yes:

You didn't LOSE IT. You just forgot to take your earplugs out.:p

Heck, I started drinking Mich Ultra even before I found out it was relatively low cal/low carb.:D

Sofia
02-15-2009, 12:49 PM
Don't worry . She is gonna come back very soon.Be optimistic and hope for a better tomorrow.