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cfmama
01-25-2009, 04:38 PM
and everythings on plan eating/weighloss wise. No worries.

I've spent the last three days by my grandmothers side and she finally died last night at 11:56 in my arms, with my head and her head touching and me stroking her hair. It's been the HARDEST thing I've ever had to do but I am so glad I was there with her.

So I'm sorry I have not been around for the last little bit. That will change. So don't worry about me (as I know some have been) I'm okay and back.

love you friends


mariamherrera
01-25-2009, 04:42 PM
I'm so sorry to hear about your grandma dieing that must be horrible! My grandma is getting p there in age and It makes me so fearful to know the day will come :(

your in my thoughts and prayers! and keep coming here if you need to vent or need encouragement that's what were here for!:hug:

lottie63
01-25-2009, 04:47 PM
Sorry for your loss, glad to see you are holding up ok though. *hugs*


time2lose
01-25-2009, 04:50 PM
I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers. I am sure that having you with her helped your grandmother.
You are a strong woman. We are blessed by your presence here at 3 fat chicks.

Eiluj
01-25-2009, 04:53 PM
I'm sorry to hear of your loss, cfmama. I'm going through the same thing.

You've been an inspiration to me, if that helps.

Julie

TraceyElaine
01-25-2009, 05:20 PM
I'm glad you got to be there for her. My thoughts are with you.

djay
01-25-2009, 05:25 PM
I am so sorry for your loss. I am sure it meant everything to have you there with her in the end! :hug:

2ndChance09
01-25-2009, 06:02 PM
Oh sweetie I am so sorry. :( I am so glad for you though that you were able to be there, and that you are holding up okay. Hugs.

Tai
01-25-2009, 06:59 PM
I'm so sorry to hear about your grandmother. Stay strong!

walking2lose
01-25-2009, 07:16 PM
I am so sorry. My deepest sympathies go out to you and your family

TJFitnessDiva
01-25-2009, 07:28 PM
I'm sorry to hear about your grandmother :( *hugs*

Buttercup
01-25-2009, 08:08 PM
I am sorry to hear about your grandmother. But what a blessing for you to be there with her. You will always know she went peacefully and feeling loved. There is no better way. You are in my prayers.

Beautiful Ace
01-25-2009, 08:09 PM
So sorry for your loss, stay strong:)

GirlyGirlSebas
01-25-2009, 08:17 PM
I'm sorry CFmama. I know how much she meant to you.

Dumplin
01-25-2009, 08:40 PM
i am so sorry!:hug:I know it hurts but things will get better!

rodeogirl
01-25-2009, 08:57 PM
I'm glad you were able to be there for her! We'll be right here when you get back, don't worry about us!

Also glad to hear the food part is going well. If you can keep pretty well on plan through this you can do anything.

SnowboundChick
01-25-2009, 09:02 PM
I'm so sorry for you loss. I will keep you in my prayers and positive thoughts. Hugs.

Randi
01-25-2009, 09:11 PM
I am so sorry! Will be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. I am so glad you were able to be there with her. Take care of yourself!! :hug:

LesliesMom
01-25-2009, 09:48 PM
Sorry for your loss, what a tough thing, but now special to be able to be there for her.

Angie

wchs2007
01-25-2009, 09:51 PM
You are in my prayers...

Ookpik
01-25-2009, 10:33 PM
Sorry to hear of your loss. Take care.

nicolen
01-25-2009, 11:49 PM
Tammy, I'm so sorry for your loss. I know you've been expecting this for some time, but you're never quite ready to let them go, are you?

My thoughts are with you, sweetie. :hug:

cfmama
01-26-2009, 12:18 AM
I feel very relieved for her :( She was in so much pain this past week that it's a relief for her not to be feeling that any more.

The nursing home took good care of us. My husband brought in my snacks for me but I ate their breakfast/lunch and dinner. All low sodium/low fat stuff but still okay. I didn't go over my calorie count although I don't think I've actually eaten that many sandwiches in a long time. Lots of water etc.

The service will be either thursday or friday. She's being cremated and we're having a tea afterwards.

I'm freaking exhausted guys. I was up from 6 am friday morning to 2 am sunday morning with 1.5 hours of sleep in the middle of friday night. I got sleep last night but it's going to take a while to catch up.

Thanks for the support everyone. I love being friends with you all.

lalique
01-26-2009, 12:26 AM
My thoughts & prayers are with you :hug:


..I went through the same thing 4 years ago with my grandpa...

Lyn2007
01-26-2009, 01:13 AM
I'm so sorry for your loss. I know it must have been a great comfort for her to have you there so close to her.

S.A.S.H
01-26-2009, 09:02 AM
:hug: :hug: :hug: I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. I wish I could do more to comfort you, but know that we are here and we love you too. You are such an inspiration in more ways then weightloss and you truly are a joy to know around the boards. :grouphug:

Jen415
01-26-2009, 09:21 AM
How beautiful that you were able to be with her as she transistioned to a new life! You seem very at peace about it. And I am so proud of you that you did not use this as an excuse to go off plan. Well done!