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Old 10-16-2008, 02:32 PM   #1  
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Hi Chicks,

I am back after a long time away. The first time I was here I lost 100 pounds and found the man of my dreams. 3 years later, he's gone and I miss him so much. He owns a bar and he never comes home because he has to work so hard to keep the doors open. He laid off a bunch of people when things started getting slow and he's doing the job of 3 people now. He told me that he loves me and he can't hurt me anymore by being away from home so often. He says I deserve a better life than he can give me, that I need a man who will be there for me. I disagreed, but he won't change his mind. He says he left because he's no good for me. SIGH . . . So here I am lonely and depressed and having consoled myself in every nasty food imaginable. Double miserable now because I gained back so much of the weight I lost before. So here I am, hoping to pick up the pieces of my life and drop some of this weight. Maybe he might come back, maybe he wont. But I need to do something to make myself feel better.

Sorry to be so long
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Old 10-16-2008, 02:37 PM   #2  
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Hello seashell! It's amazing to me that people who were here "long ago" find their way back when they are down. That's how you know they have something going good here with this site. I'm so glad that I found it!

VERY sorry about the man. But loose the weight for YOU, not for him. I just wish we all lived closer so when someone feels like this we could take them out for a good ole'time!

Get back up on your feet and do something for you! Welcome back and good luck!!!
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Old 10-16-2008, 03:23 PM   #3  
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Shelley!! hello old friend!!!

I'm sorry that you have gained some of the weight back and I am sorry that things aren't right with your man. But I am glad that you remembered us and came back!!!

You've done it once, you can certainly do it again!!!

Welcome back!!!!
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Old 10-16-2008, 03:30 PM   #4  
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Welcome back!
Hope it all works out for you. We are here for you when you need us
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Old 10-16-2008, 03:42 PM   #5  
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Old 10-16-2008, 03:52 PM   #6  
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Welcome back!

I am so sorry it didn't work out the way you wanted with your guy.

I am glad you're back. Just start posting again!
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Old 10-16-2008, 05:49 PM   #7  
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Welcome back. Now is the time to focus on yourself and give yourself the life you deserve!
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Old 10-16-2008, 05:57 PM   #8  
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Seashell glad you came back to get support from us. Keep and remember your not in this alone.
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Old 10-16-2008, 07:44 PM   #9  
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Welcome back! Congratulations on taking this step in what will surely be a positive direction. Feel better...
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Old 10-20-2008, 11:16 AM   #10  
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Thanks everyone. It's nice to be back. Feels like family here!
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