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WinterStarzz
08-31-2007, 02:22 PM
Yesterday, in the middle of an argument with my DH, I was informed I have a fat "butt" and tiny "boobs" (other words were used here, but I thought I would PG it for y'all). Apparently it was just said in the "heat of the moment" and he "didn't really mean it" because he was "just really mad". And hey, I say stupid things when I'm mad, too. But that was definitely the opposite of an ego boost.

I have decided to have a sense of humor about this, and not let it bug me.......too much........anymore.

So now I shall take my big butt and little boobs for a walk on this very lovely day. :dizzy:

In a bit of real good news, the scale is hovering between 303 and 305. Not exactly sure which is more accurate, because one of the little feet things on the bottom decided to melt to the floor...so now it's tippy and lopsided unless balanced with something shoved under it. But that was nice, anyhow. Finally (hopefully) lost those 2 stupid gained pounds from the past couple weeks. Now I can actually get to moving that ticker down a bit more.

Oh yeah...one more thing...someone from Michigan needs to go to the beach with me and fly a kite. :P


hellokitty81668
08-31-2007, 02:25 PM
:hug:
I found a great quote from Roosevelt that might help: No one can make you feel inferior without your permission.
And it is better to have little boobs instead of a little ricky( if you know what I mean).
Congrats on loosing the weight you are doing great!!
And you are not alone, my butt is bigger than my butt, and I am proud!!!!!!

cheryl

Bouncing
08-31-2007, 02:41 PM
A little ricky? Honest, RICKY? I am never going to look at that Prius ad the same way again! You know, when the critters are all saying "Ricky" and then this Prius with a license plate that says Ricky drives up, and this chewy blond stud gets out and poses.

Somewhere between snickering and howling...


xFLUFFYx
08-31-2007, 02:43 PM
Hiya WinterStarzz...Firstly, I am sending my private plane to pick up Lalique so we can fly to france and eat FF escargot (Lalique discovered that they really are FF and only have 90 calories)...how about if we stop in Michigan...meet you at the beach..fly some kites then all 3 of us can continue on to France?

sorry to hear that you all had an argument...alot of things are said that are not meant..they just come out. Whatever the resons that your hubby said those things...the good thing is he realized he had done wrong and appoligised.

WinterStarzz
08-31-2007, 02:50 PM
France sounds great! Count me in, for sure. I'm going to pack my bags... *running off to bedroom with jumbo suitcase*

MugCanDoIt
08-31-2007, 03:10 PM
Don't feel bad, I have the best husband in the world, but if we fight and it goes really far, he says nasty stuff to me too like that.

Bouncing
08-31-2007, 03:13 PM
Can I go too? I'm at Lalique's house, looking at her and all impressed and wishing I'd been as smart as she is when I was 21. Can we take Dek too?

WinterStarzz
08-31-2007, 03:14 PM
Well, see, you have the best husband in the world. So it's okay if he's a butt head sometimes, because his bestness makes up for it. Mine's just a punk in general, lol.

endlessly
08-31-2007, 03:23 PM
What a jerk. Seriously. You are trying to lose the weight and calling you names is not helping.
Good men do not call their wives negative names. Even when they are mad!! I would make sure he didn't see my fat butt or my small boobs for a very long time. Not good enough for him to respect so they are not good enough for him to play with..ya know?

Schmoodle
08-31-2007, 03:56 PM
Winterstarzz, I have to second endlessly. I can't imagine being called those things by someone who loves me. Of course I wasn't there, and don't know you, and so I hope it was not the way it sounds to me.
Of course, DH did notice with some dismay recently that the boobs are shrinking along with everything else. I had to remind him that long, long ago, before three kids and 100 lbs, they were B cups, and will undoubtedly go back to that size again or smaller if I lose the weight (not to mention be hanging to my bellybutton). So he can just deal with it!

WinterStarzz
08-31-2007, 04:39 PM
I guess to clarify, he said those things because he *thought* I was attacking the size of his...er...parts. He is trying to quit smoking, and I figured out that he had slipped up yesterday. We have had "lying issues" going on somewhat recently (he lied to me about doing something he swore he wasn't, caught him, he confessed, now trust is a bit of a wavery thing we are trying to rebuild). So when he tried lying to me about smoking, I got mad. I told him his smoking drives me nuts because his blood pressure shoots through the roof, he is constantly lethargic, he smells terrible, and he has trouble keeping up. By "keeping up" I meant keeping up with life, keeping up at his normal pace. In his head, he heard "keeping IT up", and flipped out on me. I tried telling him he misheard, but he was already long gone. Thus, the butt/boob remark. So he had "motive", even if it was completely misheard and taken out of context, but what he said was still very insensitive...especially considering he made the comment AFTER I had clarified my statement. I guess he was just still mad. Still, no excuse. It sucked. Especially because I didn't even say "it".

stranger n my mirror
08-31-2007, 04:45 PM
My husband has a tendency to say the same thing, well, about my rear but never about my boobs cause I have always been quite the opposite there. Actually, 5 yrs ago I had a reduction. I was a FF or G or something outrageous like that and had them reduced to a C cup but I think they are quickly heading towards a B. Hmmm, I may have had too much cut off. But at least they are saluting the sun!

SoulBliss
08-31-2007, 04:50 PM
Being able to maintain an erection (or questioning one's ability to do so) and saying something critical abut general penis size are two different issues (and it sounds like, in reality, you brought up neither).

It sounds to me that he lashed out at you because he was experiencing static in terms of knowing his actions aren't positive and you noticed. How he responded is unacceptable.

What you were saying about his health is valid, based on a desire to see him do well, gain heath and enjoy his life and his family more. What HE said was petty, superficial and hateful. How immature. It says more about him, how he views you and his level of basic respect for you that anything else. I don't personally respect it when people resort to such low blows. :mad:

All I can do is offer a hug. :hug:

Schmoodle
08-31-2007, 05:13 PM
Yes, I was angry on your behalf because it seemed like a low blow. I will cut him a little slack because he's quitting smoking and that's tough. Here's a :hug: and hope you guys can talk things out.

xFLUFFYx
08-31-2007, 05:50 PM
ok, let me get this straight in my head so I can plan our little road trip using mapquest..lol..

I'm flying over to Lalique's house in my privately owned jumbo jet to pick Lalique and Bouncing up, then all three of us are swinging by Winterstarzz house in Michigan, making a pit stop at the beach to fly kites, then all four of us gals are going to pick up Dek..then fly off to Paris, France and sit in a fancy Cafe' and eat FF Escargot.....right?

Yeahhhh...Road Trip...anyone else wanna go?

WinterStarzz
08-31-2007, 08:32 PM
I think this is an air trip, not a road trip. Unless you are driving your privately owned jumbo jet down the road.......in which case I guess it would be a "road" trip. And pretty funny looking.

But the plan sounds wonderful to me! Though I'm a little scared to try escargot.

CyberGypsy
08-31-2007, 08:47 PM
Take superglue apply to his (fill in the blank) while he is in bed, wait till he needs to (use the bathroom) in the middle of the night, wait for scream, pull blankets up around your neck, let out a little chuckle, and go back to sleep :)

I used this on a cheating husband, took him 4 hours in the ER to unglue it.....then I got Divorced :)

PS use lots of glue i used 2 tubes :)

WinterStarzz
08-31-2007, 08:54 PM
lol please tell me that is a true story!!!

CyberGypsy
08-31-2007, 09:22 PM
lol please tell me that is a true story!!!

it is very true, I hate cheaters.....and then lie about it .......I was the talk of Key west:)

xFLUFFYx
08-31-2007, 09:35 PM
Winterstarzz...can I snag your "will power dust" for my journal lmao...sorry OT..but had to ask..pwwwweeeaasee

NickiB68
08-31-2007, 09:46 PM
OK Fluffy....add me in. There's an airport 5 mintues from my house, you can refuel there! I went to Paris as a teenager and can play tour guide. :D You can have my snails :barf:...I want the Godiva chocolate! One trip up the towers at Notre Dame will work the calories right off!

CyberGypsy
08-31-2007, 10:08 PM
Godiva=Heaven

dek6
08-31-2007, 10:22 PM
PARIS sounds wonderful..... Ill be waiting. Not to sure about the escargot.... Maybe so croissants. and cafe' au lait.... ( :

xFLUFFYx
08-31-2007, 11:46 PM
oh no you didn't lmao...I know several people on this thread didn't just mention the sacrad words "Godiva Chocolate" LAH LAH LAH LAH LAH....I didn't see them words...

Cool..we now have a tour guide...yeahhh

Ummm...can anyone fly a plane here? If not..no worries..I got "Flying For Dummies" in front of me...I can cram through the night.

MarinePrincess
09-01-2007, 08:56 AM
Yeahhhh...Road Trip...anyone else wanna go?


Swing by Okinawa and we'll all go snorkeling! The coral reef's are gorgeous here. You can see all the Nemos and Dories you want. :)

CyberGypsy
09-01-2007, 09:00 AM
Swing by Okinawa and we'll all go snorkeling! The coral reef's are gorgeous here. You can see all the Nemos and Dories you want. :)

a friend of mine is there now.....she is in the Navy and loves it :)

WinterStarzz
09-01-2007, 09:48 AM
Fluffy, you are more than welcome to some of the dust. But be careful, it's been making me sneeze a lot. I think maybe I sprinkled a little too much. I have plenty to share. :)

All this new stuff for our adventure sounds fun! Snorkeling? Awesome!

No worries, I absolutely know how to fly a plane. I stayed at a Holiday Inn last night.............(well, not really, but how hard can it really be? lol)

xFLUFFYx
09-01-2007, 11:25 AM
LMAO Winter...glad someone knows how to Fly De Plane cause I can't make heads or tails of this "Flying For Dummies" book...it all in french haha

ok..let me get this straight..

Picking up Lalique and Bouncing in my Hummer H2, then making a pit stop to pick up Dek2...then going to WinterStarzz house in Michigan, and flying kites on the beach...then we are hoping in our Super Turbo Jumbo Jet (privately owned by all of us using our Mega Millions winnings) and WinterStarzz will be flying us to Nicki's house to pick her up and refuel at the airport next to her house, then we are heading to Okinawa..to pick up MarinePrincess and do some snorkling and swim with Nemo and Dori (just keep swimming, just keep swimming)....then...we will be (at a cruising altitude of 20,000 ft) be heading to Paris, France courtesy of our captain, friend and newly licenced pilot Winterstarzz. Ladies and Gentleman..please enjoy the flight..for your convenience, ChipnDale Dancers will be strutting down each isle serving refreshments and handfuls of nuts (at no charge). We ask that you remain seated while they bend over to serve the person next to you.

WinterStarzz
09-01-2007, 11:36 AM
Uh, excuse me, but I am not flying this plane unless it has autopilot, because I want to be hanging out around the refreshment / nut bringers. We can just hire a professional. Because if I am constantly looking behind me, the landing might not be too smooth. Don't wanna risk it, lol.

CyberGypsy
09-01-2007, 11:46 AM
the french landing strip....LOL

xFLUFFYx
09-01-2007, 12:15 PM
LMAO...this is wayyy too mcuh fun...

ok geeezzz..I guess I can afford to pay for a professional pilot..seeing as I forked up the money for the proffesional dancers lmao.
It will be good to have someone else in the plane who knows how to fly (umm winterstarzz, that would be you) that can take over the cockpit in the event our "professional" pilot can not umm complete the assigned task of flying all of us gals to Paris.

ROFL at "French Landing Strip" hahahaha

Bouncing
09-01-2007, 02:29 PM
Oh, snorkeling! I LOVE snorkeling! I need new fins, tho. And ankle weights. I have this, um, flotation problem...

Don't worry, Fluffy and WinterStarzz. Flying is easy. Takeoff is pretty easy too. Landing is hard. You want to do it v.e.r.y g.e.n.t.l.y. I'll help. When I was taking lessons, I used to take off and land in Oakland. SF Bay air space is like the freeway at rush hour, only the traffic is in three dimensions!

WinterStarzz
09-01-2007, 02:39 PM
I pass off my piloting responsibility to Bouncing. She sounds like she knows what she's doing. I'll supply kite flying supplies, though. lol