I know what you mean. My husband (of 17 years) has never had a weight problem and eats exactly what he wants (he doesn't like nachos and chips, however; he eats big meals). When I'm trying to watch my weight, I actually have to cook two separate meals. For example, if I fry chicken for my husband, I'll grill it for me. I'll grill veggies while he eats pasta. However, I won't tell you it's easy. My food usually looks really good . . . until I compare it with his. It's hard to resist chicken parmesan and ravioli in favor of a grilled chicken breast and salad. Most of the time, I succeed in resisting, but not always. Sometimes, what works for me, is having just a small portion of what my husband is eating and filling up with some veggies on the side.
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Originally Posted by seranab
I just find it a little odd that you're more concerned with his affect on you . . .
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I'm not sure that's all she's concerned about. All I know is that is the concern that she voiced here--probably because that's the concern that's relevant to the issue of weight loss. We all post our struggles and that's hers, so I can't fault her for that. Also, speaking from my own experience, you can only do so much to watch out for the well-being of your spouse/significant other. I've encouraged my husband repeatedly to cut down on the butter, eat more veggies, etc. (again, he has no weight problem, but I'm concerned for his health). However, he's a grown man, and he intends to eat what he wants. I can't change that (I do buy organic foods, so at least that helps).