After seeing this forum's title, I knew it was for me. To gain control in my relationship with food would make me so much happier. I have been everywhere in my short life from fat to institutionalised for anorexia...I must have the world's worst food relationship!
So hi! I'm a college student at Cambridge in the UK, and whilst everyone else is swotting single-mindedly for exams, I am swotting and obsessing. I'm half Iraqi and grew up surrounded by rich food, family and my father's love - when he died when I was eight I started fridge-raiding in earnest. So I know I associate food with love/acceptance/comfort - I just don't know what do to about it! On top of which, I'm a control freak, and when I diet I really diet. I'm not letting myself eat much right now and it's affecting my mind/revision. My happy weight is 105lbs - I've been MUCH more and MUCH less, and some sad part of me always wants to be 'my lowest ever' but I know where that leads...
Right now I'm 106 and hate it, hate my belly, etc. Even though I know that logically I'm not fat. Anyways I joined here cos everyone seemed so nice and supportive. Here are my goals:
- to not let the scale control my mood
- to never do the pattern of eating hardly anything all day then stuffing face at night
- to be more comfortable eating in public
- to understand that food is just food and nothing more
- not to lay this stuff on my mother so much
- and to get a first!
Ironically I'm probably closest to the last one. Well I'd love to hear if there's anyone out there who can relate to my experiences and good luck to all xxx