Thanks, Susan. I checked out Cathe Friedrich's site and it looks like her Intensity Series: Pyramid Upper Body and Lower Body DVD might be what I'm looking for. I tossed my Vedral book and did BFL lifting yesterday. My problem with that book is that a lot of his stuff is using either barbells or machines which I don't have access to. I tried to adapt most of the moves to dumbells but some I just couldn't figure out how to adapt them without hurting myself. I'd like a book or DVD that is all dumbbells, bands (which I'll gladly buy) and using my own body if possible. I'm going to try to do some research this week to see if I can adapt more of his stuff to just dumbbells.
I like the spark people dot com and stumptuous dot com sites that I learned about here at 3FC. It just feels daunting to have sooooooo much information out there on the web and so little time to research and create a program out of it all that works for me. I know, I know, lazy of me but I would like to just find a book/DVD that tells me what to do so I can do it. I'm a baby, I want the finding to be easy and spend my time on the lifting. LOL
Thank you for your feedback and I'll definitely look into the others you suggested too.
Beth