your mind, your body, your choices. if you are honestly happy with your situation, then there's nothing to be said.
i was born and raised a christian, but when i started to do my own soul searching, i completely ended up rejecting religions. in my head, faith/higher power and the church are two separate institutions with different agendas and sometimes colluding interests. i personally rejected religion.
when i am in a relationship, where there is love, respect and communication, no outsider can tell me that it's wrong. i know how it feels inside me, and that's enough.