IWantToLive - your avatar totally cracks me up ... I want it on a t-shirt!

I describe myself as "serially monogamous." If I weren't married (at the moment), I'd probably need to say bi if I were to be honest about it.

Yep, there are some of us here. :) I'm bi, I'm married to a man, he is well aware of my sexuality, we have a relationship with some openness and lots of communication, and it is all good. :-D

~Kat


Of course it counts!! When you are single and not having any contact with either gender, does that make you asexual? No. So, even if you aren't with the same sex, that doesn't change your sexuality. :)

bi here- happily married and monogamous to a bi man. ♥

Hey there. :) Bi, married and polyamorous with a wonderful girlfriend (and boyfriend, her husband.)

I'm bisexual, but I prefer women over men.

Hi! :)

lesbian/gay/whatever here. lesbian doesn't roll off the tongue as well as gay does. plus gay is only one syllable, must be why :)

I'm anthro/pan-sexual ^_^ And currently single
Glad to see this thread :)

Pardon my ignorance... I know what pansexual is, but is anthrosexual the same thing? Whenever I hear anthro, all I can think about is anthropology! :lol:

anthropansexual is the same thing as pansexual

Yeah, they pretty much are the same thing. Except anthro = human, pan = all. Anthrosexual seems a better word but pansexual rolls off the tongue easier :P

There is a posting on general chatter forum today asking how long you were with your "DH" before you got married. Have to admit I'm almost offended. My partner of 20 years and I can't get married in the U.S (and have it recognized in our state). I would like to join in the conversation but am obviously excluded by the hetero nature of the thread. Can't decide if I want to invade it or just ignore it. I'm getting tired of being excluded...

I would just comment in it with my DP or DG - or you could say DW and explain why that's not unfortunately not yet the case. I say go for it!

ETA: But it looks like the thread says, in a gender-neutral way, "For those that are married... How long were you together before you got married?" If you mean the one here, that is.

Just because the majority of the responders are hetero, I wouldn't let that hold you back.

due to the nature of the site and the support we all give each other - i say go for it. *we* are everywhere. encountering a LGBT person is a norm for most people in the US at one time or another. this is not to say all will like it. point being, i believe if someone replies with a snarky remark, there are plenty of folks who have your back. do it do it!

Good for you for posting, Sskar! :D I hope to see in my lifetime that the US states that banned gay marriage roll back their bigotry.