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Old 11-05-2004, 02:04 PM   #9
Safora
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Shelly, I wonder if the extra weight serves some sort of psychological purpose for you, something you havent dealt with yet. I know for me I had a hard time dealing with sexual attention so part of the reason I gained weight was to stop being seen as sexual. It also serves as a barrier between myself and others and it is a something to "blame" if someone doesnt like me. There are all sorts of reasons that people "want" to stay fat. Maybe its just fear of change?

Just my 2 cents anyway...
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