Maybe it does have some to do with a woman's circle and how the men behave. I am not religious, so I can't say it's Christ... It's just people who were raised to treat people kindly and fairly.
I have been thin and I have been fat. And I would say I have never been harassed or treated poorly by men. I have been judged for being overweight but never cat-called or harassed. Maybe it's how I carry myself too... I don't know.
And add me too that list of those who are losing weight and getting fitter not just for me, but my spouse. He wants a healthy wife he can grow old with and who he finds more attractive. I am also doing it for my kids as they deserve a mom who takes care of herself too.
Restart 5/18/15 began at 263.9. All time high was 275 in 7/03. Low in Summer 2012 of 169.