OA is a 12 step program, similar to AA. There are in person, phone and online meetings you can attend. You can get a sponsor. Its free except for non obligatory donation. Im turning towards them as a last resort, because my eating and bulimia past has to do with feelings and not with hunger or DNA, etc.
oH and you asked about the date, yes I had a very nice time.
But Ive learned not to take this dating thing too seriously.