Thanks you guys. I have been trying to do things like buy almonds (he loves them, I am allergic), dark chocolate (he loves it), and ice cream bars instead of cartons (that way if I do indulge its just one bar not two bowls). These little tricks do help. He isn't very supportive or nice if the subject of weight loss comes up. He gave up on me years ago. I am doing great, no major setbacks so far!