That's a good one Locke! One should be able to be around something and maintain their equilibrium.
I do rather hate the term "self-control" and I don't know if it fits in with IE. It makes me think of putting myself on a leash and being obedient.
"Binging is a descent into a world where every restriction... is cut loose. At its core is a feeling of deprivation.. a feeling you can never get enough. Binges do not signify a lack of willpower or inability to care for yourself. On the contrary, binges are a urgent attempt to care for yourself when you feel uncared for. They are the voice of survival. Binges are the mark of the self that says, 'I am tired of feeling deprived, of being told I am wrong, that I am bad." - Geneen Roth