Originally Posted by JollyGreenSteen19
The idea we all have that we have to be thin to be loved is absurd.
I totally agree! I think that people finding you less attractive because of your weight stops when you get out of high school. At least in my experience, quality people donít care about it much.
But again, very bad self esteem is really not sexy ... for anybody. So my answer is, when youíll start to feel comfortable about yourself, men will start to notice you. I met the love of my life four years ago at a BMI of 29.