Some of that is the difference in the way men & women communicate.
Women sometimes just want to vent. This is best done with the girls b/c guys are more results oriented. When we vent to them they're looking for what they can fix so we are happy.
I have to be really careful to tell DH I don't want or need him to do anything except listen because up in just venting. Otherwise he wants to fix whatever is "broken"
Losing weight is hard. Maintenance is hard. Being fat is hard. Pick your hard. (-Ishbel)
Last edited by lisa32989 : 02-01-2014 at 03:16 PM.