schenectady - sorry you are having such a rough time. Unfortunately, you can not change someone else's behaviors, you can only control how you react to them. So the only real answer is that you have to hang tough and keep your resolve (think of the Yoda quote which I can't remember exactly right this minute). You just have to keep doing it and it will get easier. Can you just avoid your dh when he's eating? Remember, you are in control of what goes in your mouth and, though, it's hard just keep saying no.
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