Originally Posted by Secret Swan
What's weird for me is that my close friends, who (I do think this is a factor) are not at their ideal weights, do not ever say anything to me and in fact seem to be annoyed with me lately.
That's sad but not uncommon - you're rocking the boat, my dear and they are uncomfortable with your new look. Your behaviors have changed, as have your energies. Ignore them. Be happy. Be healthy.