Good Luck! It can be done !
I did it and I like you considered WLS but my Family intervened and convinced me Not to do it! So glad my family spoke openly and honestly about my weight! Glad I had the good sense to be able to accept input of my family....From what I have read on the boards here most people...do not want family to be truthful about concerns for their health when weight related! I guess weight has soo much emotion attached to it makes it hard for some to have rational discussions with family members.
So grateful my family interfered with my life .
..,they have help turn my life around and I lost half a person!!!! In a remarkably short time on Ideal Protein!
When family spoke out of love and concern for my health ...glad my ego/ spirit could see and accept that it was coming from a place of love and concern....and not as a way to degrade me or tell me I was less than...but a way that let me know they Believed in Me and Cherished Me...message Received and Love accepted!
Grateful for family that did not pretend that My Fatness was invisible!
Good Luck, Roo2
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