As your friend I might be upset at you for counting my calories, I am sure your intentions are good but I might not appreciate unsolicited advice. My friend always tells me I don't eat enough, but I think it is mainly because I won't go out to eat 3 times a day with him when he spends the weekends at my house. I am not sure how I would react to his advice though if he was actually in your situation having lost weight yourself. U look great by the way!!! I guess u have to let her live and learn, if she truly is under eating and over exerting she wil learn the hard way. Who knows if she realizes her approach is not really the right one she may be asking you for help soon.