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Old 02-19-2012, 12:02 PM   #82
learning to love myself
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Join Date: Jun 2011
Location: Vegas
Posts: 145

S/C/G: 273/ticker/169

Height: 5'10


Figured I'd throw myself in the mix.. Lesbian in Las Vegas.

As for the weight and dating- I hate my own body. HATE it. so I'm changing it and while I do that I have made a personal choice to not date. I will date again when I am under 200, quite the reward for reaching one of my mini goals.
That said, other people don't hate it (or are willing to overlook it?) and I actually get asked out quite often.

But I truly believe I have to love myself before I can love someone else. No one I know actually supports my decision to not date, but I just am not as happy as I could be so why put that on someone else?


"If you really want to lose, you'll find a way, and if you don't want to, you'll find an excuse. It's up to you."

Haunting for Halloween challenge ticker below!

New Mini Goals as of 4/16-

250; 13 lbs - 5% gone
237; 26 lbs - 10% gone
211; 52 lbs - 20% gone AND goodbye obesity!
171; 92 lbs - this is my 35% AND goodbye overweight!
Ultimate goal - Comfortable in my own body!

Last edited by Kay7jay; 05-29-2012 at 04:30 PM.
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