I have more than a few pounds left to go before this will start to happen again, but I would like to hear if anyone else has this problem.
As long as I am overweight, no one notices me. I am invisible. Then when I start to get into a weight that is considered attractive by the opposite sex, I freak out when I start getting attention. I am so not used to it. Does anyone else feel this way?
You would think that I should be so happy to receive this kind of attention, but when you are so used to being invisible, for me it is very hard to take and I don't know how to respond. BTW I have been married for 20 years and it is not like I am looking to be attractive to guys in general. Also, it kinda makes me mad that "all of a sudden" I am "worthy" of their attention, and no one noticed that I was the same person before!
Any good advice for me? I would appreciate any help cuz I think this is part of the reason that I actually "like" being overweight, if you can imagine that!? It is comfortable for me not to be noticed, I guess...