Welcome Paige! Your story is so familiar!! I wonder why that is?? There are a lot of similarities with us over 40 crowd!
There is a pretty active chat thread, "47 and no idea", that you would enjoy. Just join in any time. It's a fun group and lots of support available.
6/27/16 mini goal: 234.6
This time, I'm going to be stronger, I'm not giving in. - Rudimental