Dorky butch lesbian here.
Getting trimmer gives me more clothing options and lets me try to lean more toward dapper than dorky. Still working on that.
A couple of you mentioned wanting to femme it up but feeling frumpy in your clothes - please let your femme flag fly! Some of the hottest femmes I know are overweight. Please don't think you have to be thin to be beautiful, or that you have to wait until you are thin to be yourself.
Working off a partial regain. Current weight: 181. Goals:
Make the best choice I can make, with every choice. Remember that the temptation in front of me is not the last of its kind that I will ever see; say "I'll pass today." Say "no!" to my whiny inner five-year-old.
Last edited by carter : 06-06-2011 at 08:09 PM.