I lost 60 pounds three years ago and since getting married have put every bit of it back. Its hard to get back in the swing of things but not only do you have to get others to support you but you have to advocate for yourself even if everyone else wants a snack or drink yo cant have. You Have to choose to save points for special days with your family, or just enjoy there company with your own food. Sometimes I even eat before I go somewhere, track for one or two drinks and make them last. No one knows but me what im doing, and sometimes my DH is in n the plan too. Hope that helps. Maybe you need a buddy in the same boat as you?