Zoe ~ don't be so hard on yourself (your whale description), but I know how you feel (if you recall my description of myself ~ Jabba the Hut). Why is it that it looks so much worse when we are sitting down? You are wonderful, and strong and amazing. I think of your story of what you did to your ex's clothes and just loved it. You actually did what a lot of us would like to do, but only think it. Hang in there.
One day at a time ~ never giving up!!
Life may not be the party we hoped for, but while we are here we might as well dance. (From Karen31's post)