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07-14-2010, 09:44 PM
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Senior Member
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Location: Indiana
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Who Will I Be?
Anyone wonder how different they will look and feel and BE at their goal weight? I honestly gave it no thought until just now. I saw a before and after shot of another member who looked like a completely different person, and I wondered, "Will I still look like me? Hmmm."
Any thoughts?
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07-14-2010, 10:52 PM
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Age 53
Join Date: Jun 2009
Location: NC now/MI for first 42 years
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A friend who knew I was losing but hadn't seen me in a while saw me at 190 lbs. and asked me "Did you have any idea you'd look like this?". Honestly, no. I am now down to size I was at age 29 and so much has changed. I honestly think that I have more confidence and style at 50 then I did at 29 and am quite curious what I will look at once I get to goal.
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07-14-2010, 11:09 PM
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Senior Member
Join Date: Jul 2007
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I feel like the way I look now is the way I liked to think that I looked when I was morbidly obese.
I look at pictures of myself at my high weight and I just never reallybelieved that I looked like that.
What I did not anticipate is how different I would feel. I feel completely different now. I am way stronger and have five times as much energy. I was in my twenties the last time I weighed this little, and I feel like I'm in my twenties again. Amazing.
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07-14-2010, 11:33 PM
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Hi From Canada, eh?
Join Date: Dec 2006
Location: Canada, eh?
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I look a lot different, which is nice. I feel younger I think, a bit quicker in my steps which is wonderful. But ME, the core of ME, is still the same. I was a person, I was not just fat. It did not define me, I wouldn't let it. I had fat on my body and now I don't have nearly as much, and that's all it is/was/ever will be
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07-15-2010, 02:54 AM
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Happy Plodder
Join Date: Feb 2007
Location: UK
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It's a good question to start thinking about. When I lost a lot, about 6 years ago, I didn't concentrate enough on the head stuff, I don't think I accepted the new me well enough - it certainly wasn't long before I was regaining almost all of it. Worth thinking things through now, I think.
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07-15-2010, 07:03 AM
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Loving life!!
Join Date: May 2008
Location: Ponchatoula, LA
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I think I just look like a smaller version of myself
Before, I enjoyed watching me transform....inside and out. You are still going to maintain certain characteristics, it just won't be hidden by layers of fat anymore
Last edited by TJFitnessDiva; 07-15-2010 at 07:10 AM.
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07-15-2010, 07:03 AM
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Calorie counter
Join Date: Nov 2009
Posts: 5,679
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Quote:
Originally Posted by ubergirl
I feel like the way I look now is the way I liked to think that I looked when I was morbidly obese.
I look at pictures of myself at my high weight and I just never reallybelieved that I looked like that.
What I did not anticipate is how different I would feel. I feel completely different now. I am way stronger and have five times as much energy. I was in my twenties the last time I weighed this little, and I feel like I'm in my twenties again. Amazing.
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And once again, this is how I feel. I know exactly what I will look like, or actually, I currently look like what I looked like all along in my head. Plus, my family ages well, so really I am returning to what I looked like in college. Is there anything better, really?
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07-15-2010, 07:46 AM
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Bella Signora ♥
Join Date: Apr 2010
Posts: 1,657
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I think I'll be a different person.
I've learned a lot about things since
joining 3FC and starting my weight loss
journey.
I do believe I'll be a different person-
in a good way.
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07-15-2010, 08:35 AM
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Senior Member
Join Date: Sep 2009
Location: Atlanta, GA
Posts: 230
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Quote:
Originally Posted by ubergirl
I feel like the way I look now is the way I liked to think that I looked when I was morbidly obese.
I look at pictures of myself at my high weight and I just never reallybelieved that I looked like that.
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This.
The next twenty to thirty pounds though, those I still wonder about because I never imagined myself any smaller than this.
But regardless of how I look on the outside, I'll still be the same person on the inside. I haven't changed who I am, only how I look and how I eat.
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07-15-2010, 08:50 AM
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The girl who can
Join Date: May 2010
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I want to throw out a caution to not overthink the "What will I look like?" thing. Several years ago, I lost quite a bit of weight, and all through the loss I was imagining what I would look like thin. Honestly, the mental images were completely unrealistic, but it really set me up for disappointment. I couldn't see that I was healthier and thinner because I didn't look like what I'd hoped for. I'm not playing those head games with myself this time.
Just some friendly advice.
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07-15-2010, 09:29 AM
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Token rooster
Join Date: Aug 2002
Location: Boston, MA
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I was morbidly obese for my entire adult life, so I had no idea what I'd look like.
Whenever I walk down the street and see my reflection in the glass of a building I always do a double check. It doesn't look like me.
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07-15-2010, 09:46 AM
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Senior Member
Join Date: Jul 2007
Location: In La-La Land
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Eliana
Plus, my family ages well, so really I am returning to what I looked like in college. Is there anything better, really?
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Oh my gosh, yes! For us oldsters, it is like a time machine. I'm just going back to looking more or less how I used to look.
The only thing I have to watch out for is to remember that I didn't have the best self esteem back then, and I used to not like how I looked... it's better this time around because I realize how much worse I could look-- LOL.
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07-15-2010, 10:00 AM
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Senior Member
Join Date: Jul 2010
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My mother had really high, defined cheek bones. I have often joked that I stay fat so I wouldn't have her cheeks bones. It will be interesting to see. This probably sounds silly, but I worry about what my husband will think too.
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07-15-2010, 10:46 AM
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Age 53
Join Date: Jun 2009
Location: NC now/MI for first 42 years
Posts: 1,652
S/C/G: 265/ticker/165
Height: 5'7"
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Quote:
Originally Posted by ubergirl
Oh my gosh, yes! For us oldsters, it is like a time machine. I'm just going back to looking more or less how I used to look.
The only thing I have to watch out for is to remember that I didn't have the best self esteem back then, and I used to not like how I looked... it's better this time around because I realize how much worse I could look-- LOL.
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Yep, now that I'm seeing weights from my 20s, I'm remembering how depressed/obsessed I was that I was "so fat". Now I know what fat really is! I really have to hold back at times when a 20-something is getting down on herself in one of the 20-something threads for weighing 150 lbs. and just can't lose. I both identify with that feeling but also want to butt in to tell her to enjoy that body.
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07-15-2010, 10:47 AM
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All Hail The Queen
Join Date: May 2010
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It worries me to death! I keep thinking about how different I am going to look and whether or not I'll be able to accept it when I get to that point. I think it's a good thing to lose the weight gradually so you don't notice it as quickly!
Dhani
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