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Old 07-09-2010, 10:26 AM   #14
motivated chickie
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It's tough out there in the online dating world. It takes a lot of effort to contact a person, chat with them, and then go on a date. I think a lot of us are tired and don't have the energy to have a second date with someone we don't click with.

In your case, this guy is just weird. I've never heard of being stood up after somebody was so enthusiastic about a second date. Usually guys I've dated give me a signal if they are not that into me. By not texting or calling.

Last night I went on a first date with a guy I met online. He was really great in every way, except I wasn't into him. I felt bad for not liking him & I did lead him on. He suggested we see each other again & I said yes. I know it was dishonest, but I really wanted to like him. I don't know if I'll go on a second date, but to be honest, I really don't want to.

So I admit, I've been on the other side of the equation and leading people on. But I don't have the heart to reject someone so quickly.

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