I have always been on the chubby side, and I got really heavy (around 250) when I was 20 due to medication I was taking... now at 30 I am back around a normal weight thanks to exercise and careful eating.
However I have noticed a lot of attention from guys, and I need to learn how to manage this...
having never really been "sexy" before... it's a new thing for me and learning how to deal with that is new. are there other women on here in this same situation?
I posted a similar post in the "depression" section... because the attention is kinda depressing, or at least scary and violating at times, which can bring up depression... but i thought I would post it here too, so sorry if it's doubled.