Hello Everyone!
I have been working to better myself for about 6 weeks and am noticing results both in my clothing and in my demeanor.
There are several people around me who have noticed it as well - which makes me happy - gives me the confidence that what I'm doing is working.
My significant other of the past three years is now in his first year of law school. He has an efficiency apartment at school during the week and comes home on the weekends.
I would think that of anyone, he would notice my weight loss more because he doesn't see me every day. I asked him once if he noticed anything and he said "well yeah, i guess....maybe your butt looks smaller?"
I mentioned it to a friend of mine when she told me that she had lost 50 pounds when her husband asked if she got her hair cut.
So I don't know how to take it really. That he's not noticing the effort that I am putting in to be a better partner or that he loves me and it doesn't really matter if I'm chunky or not.
Still, I'd like him to cheerlead for me a bit...in spite of the fact that it's just not his personality.
Advice?