gee...I don't know... my son (10 1/2) kind of likes it when I know the characters for his shows & chaotic cards. I enjoy his music too so I encourage him to listen to it. But my son thinks it's cool when my hubby goes to his school, with his suit & dark sunglasses on b/c he looks like a secret agent! (yep, he does
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I think if you think about it, there's stuff your daughter likes that you do..maybe clothes, make-up, girl talks...
"Cool", IMO, isn't about being their friend, it's about respecting you for who you are - MOM