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Old 05-22-2009, 07:37 PM   #9
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Originally Posted by Windchime View Post
Really? Does this work for anything else, say jobs? Would you say to someone who was wondering about a better job, "Hey, the best way to find one is to quit looking. Then the right job will just appear!" I honestly don't see anything wrong with looking; to me, that means being open to possibilities, being friendly and yeah, maybe sometimes asking a guy out. (I don't have the guts for that but I know some women do and I think that's cool).

As for the OP's question--there are as many types of men as there are women. There are men who won't be bothered by a few extra pounds or a child, and there are men who might not want to deal with either one. It just depends on the guy, the girl, and the circumstance.
I didn't say it is wrong to be looking. I merely said that sometimes when we least expect it we meet our soulmate. It has happened to me and many others.
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