Do I understand that you've only been doing this for 3 weeks and that you started both weight lifting and calorie counting at the same time? If so, I'd say (and believe me this is just my opinon
) you need to give it longer before you say "it's not working." And if your inches are changing, then something is happening. Eventually the scale will catch up. Are you actually lifting 6 days a week, or does that include your cardio time too? And really, though it's hard, I'd give it more time. I once spent nearly 3 months at the same weight, and went down two sizes in that time. Bodies are strange things at times. Could you adjust your focus to something other than the scale for awhile? Focus on your measurements, on the gains you're making lifting (as Fran says, they'll slow down), or even the fit of your clothes. Whatever you do, keep up the good work!