Oh Lyn, I am so sorry you are going through all of this. That's a LOT of stress! I am praying that everything will turn out fine for you.
I'm so happy for you that you've discoverred that turning to food would only make matters worse - not better. How wonderful for you. You have much to be proud of.
You can now remember this and when the inevitable stress rolls around again, you can take confidence in the fact that you know there are other alternatives then food to help deal with the stress. It's great to know when things around you seem so out of control, that there is one aspect of your life (and an important one at that) that you can indeed control.
Sending good thoughts and wishes your way.