Hi neighbor! Not sure what part of PA you're in but chances are I can call you a neighbor as I'm in Delaware
I'm 27 and can never remember a time in my life that I was a healthy weight...maybe when I was 5.
I'm not very good with email (as in, I always forget to write back lol), but wouldn't mind connecting on here. I definitely understand that feeling of not getting support from friends and having a large amount of weight to lose. This board has been really supportive and full of like-minded people so hopefully you will feel at home here