You know those judgmental people who believe that looks are everything and without them, you're just nothing worthy? the type of people who make crude remarks knowing it hurts your feelings (they can't be that
I went to this dinner once with my family and there was this woman there who saw me and said
"Hey, weren't you that girl who lost tons of weight? you gained it all back???" and I didn't know what to say! I was so shocked she said that and I didn't understand why she would even say that. It was so mean and I just felt my insides melt. I just kind of quietly said
I mean, how am I supposed to answer? I can't believe she said that. By the way, yeah I lost a lot of weight but I gained 17 lbs back! for her to say I gained 'all' of it back just made me feel like complete crap...especially because I'm back on the wagon now and trying my hardest. Then a little while later when everyone's eating, she just kind of sits around watching people. She looks at me and asks
"Hey, do I look fat to you? be honest"
....ok, let me tell you one thing...this woman is PREGNANT with TRIPLETS. She asked me if she looked fat when she's due in 2 months? can you believe this? I said
"Well...you know, you're pregnant. It's for your babies".
She just looked so aggravated. I felt like punching her (but violence is not the answer) For someone to be that shallow is just outrageous. She's so concerned with vanity it makes me sick. Sorry, I just had to get this out of my system, hope you all understand...everyone is just really supportive here so I trust I could tell you this story. This happened back in October and I still think about it.
I just don't know why people don't think before they speak. I encounter these type of people a lot. Her frankness just came out of nowhere and it made me feel like some monster.