Yeah... I had a situation with a guy this time last year who was also "seperated" from his SO, and there was a beautiful baby girl involved. We were never together, we just enjoyed having coffee with eachother and talking way more than we had any right to. It ended up a really terrible, painful, dramatic, awful situation for every person involved. Even though nothing happened - I regret it a lot. No reason to intentionally make life any more messy than it really needs to be... "A wise monkey never monkies with another monkey's monkey."