Good morning my fellow fat fighters. LOL
Here it is FUN FRIDAY !!! And I am off to have some fun this lovely day.
My trip to my parents was a pretty good one.
I saw my dad Wed night and he looked so frail.
but.....
Thursday morning he looked much better.
It is soooo hard watching your parents age.
He is getting to go for a visit back home Saturday. He is so excited. BUT...I am just soooo worried that when they have to take hime back to the nursing home... he will get really depressed.
My mom is doing fair too. Even when they are doing good... they still are bad.
My sister has started her treatment for her cancer returning.
I seem to upset her every time I try to comfort her.
I need to go to some kind of class to learn how the help her.. or at least learn how to quit hurting her.
YELLOPAGEMAKER ... I am soooo happy you found us. Well.. I hope you find us again.
We start a new thread after every 28-30 posts. We just number them... 156,157,158 etc.
Where in Kansas do you live?? I have family in Kansas.
And as for having a 13 year old.... God help you.
When my first born turned 13 it was ****. LOL
We were both new at it... LOL
The day he turned 14 it was like someone flipped the switch and he was sweet again. LOL LOL
I often said it was going to end with me committing either suicide or homicide.
He is a wonderful young man now.
ANDRIA !!!!!!!!! I miss you soooooooooooooooooooo.
I sure wish you would come share here more often.
You know what they say....
Once you bond here... you can leave this group... BUT
this group will NEVER leave you.
We haunt you in your sleep, in your refrigerator, in your memories
WE LOVE YOU... we accept you...we ARE you.
Andria... "we put our hands in yours because we care."
Reach out and take hold. If you need or want someone to talk to... PM me your phone number and I will call you Monday when I get home...or your email address or just write me via PM
And I only have time to respond to one more. and that one is.....................................BAYLEE
Baylee... I have been where you are with relatives knowing even my pen name here.
They really didn't have to know my name... my stories would expose me. LOL
I almost quit too. I really really struggled with it. I did NOT like it one bit. I thought of changing my name... I thought of quitting all together... I thought of just reading and not posting.... I did hide out for awhile... only posting trival stuff. Then I realized.... I am hurting no one but myself. I LOVE it here. I was miserable without all of you. I just got filled with anger and hate and resentment. Do you know what that does.... it makes you FATTER.
Soooooo... after sharing privately with a few special people here... I finally accepted the fact that there was nothing I could do to change it.... so just go with it. It took me awhile to get back to "normal".... but I made it.
I guess to make this longggg story short... don't worry about them and keep being yourself and sharing as normal.
Okay guys..I know I did not get to everyone.. but I HAVE to go... it is 3am here. And I am leaving tomorrow to go spend the weekend with my daughter.
It is up to you guys to keep this place going.... I hope to find lots of posts when I get home Sunday night.