Hey gotworktodo, I'm right where you are. I am in college right now and living in the dorms. I see skinny girls all day long and it kills me. The pressure to be skinny is just too much sometimes.
I also know what you mean about sweets. I had that struggle today. I gave in to a bowl of ice cream because I felt like I was missing out.
This site has really helped me stay motivated. I log on here and read stories from people who are struggling just like me.
PM me if you ever want to talk!