hi becky!
welcome!
im sorry you feel confused..maybe i can help
im andrea&im restarting my diet on 1-8. dont know if this would interest you but theres a small group in here called losin' ladies&they are so supportive! its for ppl of any eating plan.
then, if youre on ww, theres the monthly challenge group where we do monthly threads and set goals for ourselves.
feel free to PM me if i can be of further help