I have a very different perspective here. When I was at my highest weight I knew I was fat (and now, even though I'm smaller, I'm still overweight and I can feel that)-- but there was nothing in my head telling me that being fat meant being ugly. I think it's a great thing if you can be overweight and still feel pretty, put together and valuable, because feelings of self worth should not be based on a number. However, as beautiful and great as you feel when you're heavy, I know it'll feel 10x better when we're all at our lowest!
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