Congrats on the weight loss so far! I did Optifast years ago and lost 40 pounds on the liquid phase but totally blew it when I returned to regular food. It sounds like you are getting much better counseling and have a great attitude.
Just wanted to toss in that there are different kinds of WLS, with different risks and restrictions. It's not for everyone but do your own research not just what you may have heard from others (including me
). I had the lapband, which doesn't involve rearranging your insides and has no higher risk of death than ANY surgery (which all have a certain risk).
Anyway, this is a great thread and previous posters are right - there is no easy way - just tools and hard work to get us where we're going.