you find out that 5 days out of the month, everything you work for is ruined.
My family is all obese and we gain weight easy, so we have made it our family vow that we will teach my 2 yold how to eat healthy right from the start.
I'm not saying she never get's sweets or junk food but 90% of her meals are healthy.
This weekend we had her 2nd birthday party at her father's (my sister and my niece's father were seperated (in the process of a divorce) by the time my niece was born...less than a year after they married) mother's place.
We have confirmed that the whole family is white trailler trash...I think that Rednecks would be ashamed to be seen around them. They give Orange crush as juice, they let her drink Pepsi, eat chocolates and etc... all day long. The 8 yold cousin took my niece's...again, she's 2... hand and showed her how to masturbate a neigbour's dog. Her play ground consist of a completed rusted swing set , a sand mount surrounded by old wood, rusted-broken down ATVs and other metal parafanellia (sp?).
My niece hates to be dirty, well, she was absolutly filthy and when she asked for a wet toilette to clean herself...she was told to use her clothes to wipe her hands and clean herself.
I know we have to be tolerant in life but when everything you do to raise a beautifull, polite and well behaved healthy girl and you see all your hard work go down the drain within 5 days per month. That kid eats nothing but junk for those 5 days. If she picked pudding for breakfast, that's what she would eat...no questions asked. We know that she eats everything fried and fatty when she's there, there is very little fruits or veges served all weekend.
You would think that when they discused the visits, my sister had made it extremely clear that she did not wish to feed, or have served, unhealthy foods because of our family's weight issues. He had totaly agreed...I guess that went the same way everything else he ever said went.
My sister is supposed to talk to her lawyer this week and discuss his rights. He's been a dead beat dad since day one and the only reason he has any rights to have his daughter sleep over is my sister fighted for it .