Nelie, that is great news and a wonderful post. Sometimes it just takes a little change to see that we're not stuck in the same place forever (wish I could get a little of that myself these days
You have come so far already -- I remember when you stopped posting, and I was scared you wouldn't ever post again (I hate when that happens), but you came back with a VENGEANCE.
Well done! Oh, and I missed the other thread, but CONGRATULATIONS on your engagement! I'm glad you found a great guy who seems to appreciate you so much.